Ok, so I am new here and I notice a lot of these threads haven't seen a lot of activity.  As I try to overcome a long spell of writer's block, I find myself curious about what women get out of this little hobby of ours.  I've written a number of commission stories in my time and I'd say the split has been 50/50 male and female clients. 

The majority of male story requestors involve someone they know, either their current spouse or a woman they knew in their younger days, the classic "one that got away."  For the former, I get the feeling the motivation is a desire to see their longtime partner "put in her place" in a way they no longer feel capable of doing.  For the latter, I think the majority are motivated by the desire to go back in time and hook up with that "dream girl"...but the inability to come up with a premise where the girl will actually accept them in a relationship leads to fantasies about rape.

The females who've requested stories from me come in two distinct categories:  1) The ones who wanted me to come up with a specific "rouge" type who victimized invented characters, and 2) Those who wanted me to write stories about them being victimized....and I'd say the majority of those demanded stories involving protracted scenes of gang rape.  I've always been happy to oblige, but I have wondered about the core motivation.

For those wanting a "rogue" type, I can only imagine that it involves women's natural attraction for a "bad boy" type.  For those wanting to read stories about themselves being gang raped, I imagine it has something to do with a common desire to experience group sex, but for some reason they can only visualize it in a gang rape scenario.

I notice there seems to be a number of female "regulars" her so I reach out to you.  What is it about rape fantasy that appeals to you and what are your particular "hot buttons"...and why?  As a writer I'm proud to have created female lead characters that female readers have found relatable, and I would love to take that to a deeper level in my future stories here.

[snathpall]

Hello Sveglio:

I can only speak of myself and my attraction to rape fantasies.

Why am I attracted to this fantasy?

It stems from an abusive childhood where I was constantly put down and made to feel unwanted. I am "the object of desire" in the rape fantasy. The fantasy addresses two issues in my life: 1) To be craved and lusted after (desired) that men single me out (for attack). 2) It reinforces those childhood wounds of worthlessness as I am made to feel like an object rather than a person.

Hot Buttons:

1) Being made to strip. My attacker(s) forces me to undress while he/they ogle me; thereby, sexually demeaning me as an object and not a person.
2) I'm not into bondage but often in my fantasies men collar me, either with a regular dog collar and leash or sometimes with an improvised object such as a belt or spool of twine. Once again, I'm under my attackers control and not a person but an object.
3) Pregnancy: The ultimate in humiliation. Humiliation reinforces that sense of worthlessness. I am an object to be breed and have a lifetime reminder (the child) of when I was "owned."

Gang rapes:

Basically the same as above but since there is more than one (usually 4 in my fantasies and one at a time) the humiliation and degradation is repeated over and over again via the single incident.

The attacker(s): Mine are always clean cut and strangers. I am a 21st century woman so there are no scenarios such as pirates or aliens from outer space or sex slaves. Stranger attackers are preferred because if I knew the attacker(s) I would report him/them to the authorities.

Me:

My victim (me) is my alter ego. I nice suburban soccer mom. No rich-bitch, high school cheerleader, superheroine. The victim has to be me: an innocent and a true victim who has nothing wrong to deserve the attack.

Final:

Now that I am on the otherside of 40, it is especially appealing for my attacker(s) to be less than half my age. Once again, it adds to my humiliation and degradation if my attacker(s) are young enough for me to be their mother and they "own" my body for that time. Especially, if one of them (and i don't know which one) impregnates me.

I hope this helps. Feel free to DM me with any questions.

Nath

[Jessica_2000]

I just get excited when I feel threatened. A man leering at me, walking too close, or accidental touches that might not be so accidental, it's just such a turn on even if it makes me incredibly uncomfortable.

I just get excited when I feel threatened. A man leering at me, walking too close, or accidental touches that might not be so accidental, it's just such a turn on even if it makes me incredibly uncomfortable.

That's the big difference between man vs. woman when it comes to unrequested contact from a stranger. Yesterday, I was at a Moroccan restaurant, and the young woman who took my order walked right up to where I sat to check one or two items she wasn't sure of; she outright leant into me, her entire left side was softly pressing me and a had the scent from her long black hair.

I didn't feel threatened one bit, not even uncomfortable; I'm twice her size and a foot taller. It really turned me on. I found her very sexy and loved to be leant on by her, a cute brunette from North Africa who spoke broken English and a little bit of French.

If I pressed myself against a female stranger like that, she'd probably call the police; maybe she'd be turned on, who knows? But she'd most likely be very uncomfortable.

In my stories, I try to play this opposition between feeling turned on and being threatened and uncomfortable or outright terrified, as will be the case when a girl gets gang-raped.

[Jessica_2000]

It can be terrifying in the moment. Yet, I'll shamelessly masturbate about it later thinking about how much further things could have gone. As terrible as rape is I do think it's just naturally ingrained in our minds.

It can be terrifying in the moment. Yet, I'll shamelessly masturbate about it later thinking about how much further things could have gone. As terrible as rape is I do think it's just naturally ingrained in our minds.

I sometimes use the "what if..." element in my consensual stories, which I usually post on LushStories (they don't allow rape, but their minimum age for characters is set at 16, which allows for genuinely teen stories). The girl gets scared by some ugly bugger here or there, and she starts to think "what if..." when she's with her lover.

In a scene I just worked on, a glamorous actress who's on a motel road trip with a teenage lad is taking a walk with him in a small forest near a white church, on a ridge overlooking St. Lawrence River, and they see a cargo ship making its slow headway out in the distance, headed for Quebec City and the Atlantic beyond.

The white-gloved, headscarfed lady asks her young lover what these dirty sailors would do to her if she was all alone on that squalid ship. This definitely turns her on!

The moderators on that site won't allow the r-word, but they do allow that sort of borderline play when used as an erotic element. Avoiding the r-word and using euphemisms fits perfectly with characters who lived in 1953. I often use the expression "to rough up a girl", which I've heard in film noirs.

This being said, for you, the scene would work better if they met a scary-looking man in that forest, e.g. a sexton at the churchyard, a huge man against whom the lad would have no chance. They run! Once back in their Chevy, she drives away with her heart racing, in sweat, and she stops a bit farther at some place quiet, where she has very intense sex with the lad.

Even better for you... The big sexton overtakes them, beat the shit out of the lad, and then has his way with the actress, who ends up half-naked and whimpering under the grunting man, her head bobbing on the forest floor.

[Jessica_2000]

Kinda crazy they don't allow the word rape. Been thinking about writing a what if story about a guy who was groping my thigh on the bus a couple months ago.

Kinda crazy they don't allow the word rape. Been thinking about writing a what if story about a guy who was groping my thigh on the bus a couple months ago.

They won't even allow the r-word in a character's fantasy as they don't want to make feel some readers uncomfortable or trigger bad memories in some survivors, each survivor case being unique. I get around with expressions such as "having one's way with", "gang-fuck", etc. As long as the girls are enjoying themselves in the fantasy, it's all good. My male teenage character was born in 1937, and his favorite fantasy is from the 1939 movie Gone With The Wind; during sex, he fantasizes over Scarlett O'Hara getting gang-fucked by black slaves during an all-out revolt. It's actually a gang-rape, but Scarlett loves it. If I had depicted a fantasy where Scarlett keeps screaming, "No!" and begging and shrieks in pain as the negroes rape her, the chapter wouldn't have been allowed. This is what censorship does to art!

My real-life fantasy over Scarlett did involve her getting gang-raped and screaming and pleading in total panic as they took their turns inside her. This was one of my favourite fantasies when I was a teen. I grew up watching old movies.


Oh, that guy both scared and aroused you at the same time. If you want to write a story out of this, delving in whatever you were thinking about while masturbating over this would be a great place to start. Were you imagining that he followed you out of the bus and let himself in your place and locked the door behind him? That's a hot one-on-one rape fantasy right there!