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Offline Army of One

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Re: BDSM Curious
« Reply #15 on: April 05, 2019, 10:52:30 PM »
OMG I AM LOVING THIS MORE AND MORE, may have to invest in some kink appropriate clothing!!!

May be crossing the bounds of appropriateness here, but will we get to see you in said apparel?
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Re: BDSM Curious
« Reply #16 on: April 06, 2019, 11:05:58 AM »
OMG I AM LOVING THIS MORE AND MORE, may have to invest in some kink appropriate clothing!!!

May be crossing the bounds of appropriateness here, but will we get to see you in said apparel?

No promises but its a possibility
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Re: BDSM Curious
« Reply #17 on: April 06, 2019, 04:23:03 PM »
OMG I AM LOVING THIS MORE AND MORE, may have to invest in some kink appropriate clothing!!!

May be crossing the bounds of appropriateness here, but will we get to see you in said apparel?

No promises but its a possibility
Which, the crossing boundaries or the seeing you in BDSM-appropriate apparel? :P
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Re: BDSM Curious
« Reply #18 on: April 14, 2019, 07:20:17 PM »
I'm glad you enjoyed dear. And, even more glad or proud of you for taking the chance when it was offered. No matter how good you look, if you had turned that initial offering down, it might not ever have come back . They would have you pegged as an observer only. And, while I cannot say one way or the other, I'd be surprised if you entered what we call "subspace". You were headed there. If you orgasmed from the pain, and kept going down that path, where every detail became an energy inside you..yes you would have. Subspace is actually a kinda scary place if someone doesn't guide you back, though it sounds like your friend helped some.


I cannot tell a lie..my Ex, my Mistress, was the single most scary person I've ever met. I sat here giggling as I read your reaction to that one there. Guys are bigger, usually. And stronger..but a girl knows exactly what to do to hurt another girl. Both in good ways, and bad

Pretty please tell us more as it occurs. I miss that life and can live it vicariously .


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Re: BDSM Curious
« Reply #19 on: April 22, 2019, 07:38:08 PM »
have fun but be careful.
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Re: BDSM Curious
« Reply #20 on: May 09, 2019, 08:07:28 AM »
Usually Munches are a great way to get into your local scene, I have hosted several over the years and generally they are non kink social meets in a vanilla venue (usually a Pub in the UK) usually where food is served (hence the name).

Play does not take place and in fact all the munches I have run have had strict rules about dress code (nothing overtly kink) and behaviour (no tying up and spanking your sub because they mis behaved).

yes kink conversations happen, people seek advice, give tips, talk about past and future events and maybe discuss sex. But I have also been sat at a table where 3 people have been talking Crochet, 2 discussing Marvel and the last couple talking about the latest art house film that has just come out.

It is also a great way to keep an eye on and warn newbies off anyone that may be a bit unsafe, or the usual dom's that every local scene have that like to prey on the newbies.

My advice to anyone dipping into the scene for the first time is always go to a munch first, you can meet people in a safe, friendly, comfortable and more importantly not to alien setting before diving in and going to parties, dungeons fetish clubs etc.

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Re: BDSM Curious
« Reply #21 on: October 15, 2019, 04:55:21 PM »
Just a little update. I still casually participate in some BDSM stuff, I've kinda got a person now, she's deciding if she wants to take me on full time as her sub. I am taking this entire experience carefully though. So far people have been nice and negotiating scenes has been easy and fun but Ive also bitten off a bit more than I could chew once or twice, so eh. Still not sure if its something I wanna make into a full time lifestyle ya kno.
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Re: BDSM Curious
« Reply #22 on: October 16, 2019, 05:13:16 AM »
Just a little update. I still casually participate in some BDSM stuff, I've kinda got a person now, she's deciding if she wants to take me on full time as her sub. I am taking this entire experience carefully though. So far people have been nice and negotiating scenes has been easy and fun but Ive also bitten off a bit more than I could chew once or twice, so eh. Still not sure if its something I wanna make into a full time lifestyle ya kno.



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Re: BDSM Curious
« Reply #23 on: October 17, 2019, 05:14:17 AM »
Just a little update. I still casually participate in some BDSM stuff, I've kinda got a person now, she's deciding if she wants to take me on full time as her sub. I am taking this entire experience carefully though. So far people have been nice and negotiating scenes has been easy and fun but Ive also bitten off a bit more than I could chew once or twice, so eh. Still not sure if its something I wanna make into a full time lifestyle ya kno.
Should you both decide to go through with it, please keep us up to date. We want to know your progress into this new life.
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