Hi all.
I decided to be proactive and initiate a new board category dedicated to safety and health issues in BDSM and other kinky play. It seems like an important issue, and I'm particularly motivated after stumbling upon a new way to potentially kill your partner.
It started with a story contest on another board (RC for anyone who cares), in which I whipped off a depraved tale of abuse and humiliation involving sticking a snorkel up a tied girl's pussy and forcibly blowing first air and then later hot water through it, causing said air and water to come rushing out the only way they could, around the tight outside of the snorkel and making presumably the queefing sounds to end all queefing sounds, and I'm guessing some more than odd sensations.
So all was good until someone pointed out that blowing air into the vagina can, especially in cases where there has been some tearing or internal injury (most often a result of pregnancy), cause an air bubble to pass the membrane barrier and enter the bloodstream where it can cause rapid death. This is rare, but when I looked it up I realized that I'd found a way to dramatically increase the odds of death. 1: My method doesn't just blow air in from outside but gives it a tunnel all the way to the cervix with a good seal around it, ensuring that the air pressures involved will be much higher. 2: My method, by stuffing a likely cheap plastic snorkel in there increase the odds of minor tearing or injury, exactly the sort that increases the danger.
Long story short, I pulled the story from the site, and don't plan to repost it. It's one thing to write stories with things that are obviously risky if done wrong, like electrical play. Readers know this could be hazardous, and that is the point. But what I came up with was a quick and easy way to risk your partner's life without even knowing it. When I told my wife/slave about this story and the aftermath, her biologist brain considered it for a moment and then said 'No! Don't ever do that!' And here I was planning to surprise her with it at some future time when I had her tied and helpless.
So, that's a lot of exposition for a safety board post, but it's also indicative of exactly the sort of thing we should work to avoid - those innocent seeming practices that are far riskier than they might seem at first glance.