I'm not going to post a poll- I'm fairly certain I already know how most of you would vote. Still, I wanted to offer some thoughts on my (probably less popular) preferences here, and see if I couldn't stir up some interesting dialogue on the subject!
Ain't nothin' like the real thing, baby- that's what they say. In the flesh, skin to skin, lips to cock, cock to cunt... Real meat's the best meat. Roleplaying a rape with a lover face to face has got to be the best of both worlds, right?
But I disagree. It's not that my fantasies are so dark or bad that I've never found a lover who shares them. MOST of my lovers have tastes at least as dark as my own. And it's not that I've never roleplayed with a bag over my head and a cock up my... well. I have. I absolutely have. And it's delicious. BUT... Since I've become the virtual girl, I've come to understand many of the limitations with which flesh burdens us. In real life, in the flesh, even roleplay can be quite dangerous, both physically, and legally. A clumsy hand, an over-zealous choke hold, or an indecisive partner could lead to injury, prison, death. And some things simply can't happen in the real world.
In the virtual, in cyberplay, you can go wherever you like. You can be as extreme as you please. And your partner can as well. There's no need to steer on the safe side. And there's no need to worry that you're just not limber enough, that your cock's not big or hard enough, that the condom might slip- or your partner might stealth you and give you a disease that might kill you. In the virtual world, there are no latex allergies. In the virtual world, ropeburns and bleeding lash wounds heal with a thought. In the virtual world, we don't get "too old for that shit", and an age gap of 20 or 30 years means nothing to a meeting of like minds.
Virtually, you are limited only by your imagination, and your partner's.
I won't say absolutely that virtual play is entirely better in all ways than the "real thing, baby", but I will suggest that there are countless advantages that balance the scales.
I bet I'm alllll alone out here though, dancing in the aether, and reveling in the benefits of matrix over meat.