This is a translation of an article from "Vice France" which named "Avec les « kajirae », ces esclaves sexuelles sorties tout droit d'une saga SF" I found it pretty interesting cause it gives the floor to submissive women. It helped me a lot to create psychological background of female characters :
"In 1966, John Norman, a science fiction writer and professor of philosophy, published the first volume of his series Gor, also called "Gorean saga".
The novels are based on a mixture of philosophy, science fiction and eroticism, and are known in sci-fi circles for their sexual politics, because in the Gor universe, there is a dynamic master / slave. Women - or "kajirae" - are subject to the physical and sexual brutality of their masters (usually men) and learn to love it. This misogyny-BDSM is presented as the "natural order" of things.
Norman's books have been widely criticized for being pornographic, but they have also pushed some readers to adopt a "Gorean" way of life. Because yes, there are followers, and even Gorean couples, who seem to flourish in master / kajira relationships, 24/7, in and out of the room.
To find out more, we interviewed self-styled kajirae. Why did they decide to become sex slaves and lead a life inspired by fantasy novels?
Vivienne, 28, customer service manager
VICE: Since when are you a kajira?
Vivienne: For eleven years. I play Second Life and I had been sold at a slave auction to a Gorean master. He asked me if I had already explored his way of life, but I had no idea what it was. I immersed myself in the books and brought them to my BDSM master. It started from there.
What do you like about the Gorean way of life?
The first book I read was "Slave Girl of Gor". The relationship between the master and the slave immediately attracted me. I was dying to live the same thing. I understood that BDSM did not meet my inner needs - I was still experiencing a void at the end of each session. Gor was a way to discover other things. My current master and I have been together for four years now, and I am so lucky to have found someone who sees beyond sexual gratification. It goes much further, especially in the relationship between master and kajira.
Have you ever refused something to your master?
My master likes to joke about the fact that if he ordered me to jump from a roof, I will struggle all the way through, but I will eventually jump anyway. I have some limitations that come from my childhood traumas, but since I practice BDSM and the Gorean way of life, I have used my safe word only three times. I don't like it, because I feel like I'm disappointing my partner.
Do you believe it's the "natural order"?
It's something that has been bothering me for years. I have served women and men, but I have the impression that no one can control me as a man can.
Being a kajira help you emancipate yourself?
I really started to grow up and be more independent since I discovered Gor. I feel like I finally have a grip on my emotions after a long period of depression and anxiety. I still have my moments of anxiety, but I'm lucky to be with a master who knows how to control it. When I look in the mirror, I see that I have changed, both physically and mentally.
Anne, 53, retired teacher
Since when are you a kajira?
Anne: For thirty years, always with the same master.
How did you meet him?
My husband at the time exchanged me for a pair of boots during a medieval reenactment. I think the shopper thought he had me for the weekend, but he ended up keeping me. He was Gorean. I had never heard of it, and I had never practiced BDSM or anything else. He began by having me read the books, and I concluded that I was Gorean for a very long time - it's just that I did not know the terminology.
How is your relationship?
Sex plays only a small role. When we go out, we look like an old couple of 50s, not crazy about sex. Many people associate Gor with an ultra severe protocol, with whips, chains, and a kajira violently beaten, but that's not really our case. For us, it's more a question of state of mind. We do what he wants to do.
Is there anything you would not want to do for your master?
Other than cutting my arm or shooting someone, no. At the same time, he is not a psychopath and he wouldn't harm me intentionally; he's reasonable. I never really have a reason to say no. In general, I have to ask permission, for example if I spend money or if I want a dessert.
Would you qualify your romantic relationship?
It is, even if we do not use the word "love" very often. He does not want to appear weak. It's very appropriate for me as a kajira to say, "I love you, Master". It's less appropriate for him to say "I love you" in return.
Alice, 24 years old, military
Since when are you a kajira?
Alice: Almost four months. Friends from BDSM circle told me about it. But my master - who is also my husband - and I mix two other practices: DDLG [Daddy Dom / Little Girl] and animal role play. So we are far from the typical Goreans couple.
What do you like about it?
It may sound strange, but it helps me to overcome my anxiety and depression. The rules my husband and I have agreed on leave me with little room for maneuver, and I have to accomplish daily chores to keep my mind from wandering in unknown areas. I also like the honesty and trust that it has allowed me to build with my husband. I would not be as open and honest with myself if I had not discovered the Gorean subculture and BDSM.
How do you serve your master?
I clean the house, I prepare dinner, I go shopping and I sexually submit myself. Overall, I am a traditional housewife, except that I am punished when I don't toe the line.
Are you a full time kajira?
Yes, but that doesn't mean that I can't do what I want. I keep my husband informed of my going back and forth and I keep my phone on when I go out. I have rules to follow, which have been agreed with my husband, but they are all related to sex.
Jill, 55, artist
Since when are you a kajira?
Jill: About ten years ago. I've heard about it a year or two before adopting this lifestyle.
How did you come to practice it?
I am bipolar and I was going through a suicidal depression at the time. I was afraid of losing control of myself and I knew a friend who was a master. I decided to give him control to stay alive. I knew that by having a master, I could not kill myself, and that's how I became a kajira.
How do you submit to your master?
I'm his - it's as simple as that. It's difficult because he lives in Connecticut and me in Ontario, but I'm online most of the time. If he wants company, if he needs to talk, I'm here. I wear a necklace, but I do not consider it to be mine. That's his necklace, because all I own is his, even my money. He has access to my bank account. It's a relationship of trust. I love it.
Do you find this lifestyle emancipatory?
Totally. It requires a lot of strength. I am a strong woman. I am what is called a "first woman" - in our polyamorous group, my master and I are the main couple. People come to me with all sorts of questions, not only about the lifestyle, but also about personal issues. I like giving advice.
You call yourself "progressive kajira". What does this mean to you ?
I am a feminist. Many people think they know how life should be and see kajirae as animals. Well, sorry, but the law of my country says that I am human, and Gor's laws are imaginary. I am quite aware that we are in the 21st century, on Earth, and that the Gor planet is fictional ... Besides, I am not a big fan of books.
The names have been changed to protect the privacy of participants.