(Moderator hat off) I'm a high-functioning autistic. Much of humor and sarcasm is either lost on ME, or wounds me more deeply that it was intended to. As such, it's my job in life to piss people off. I can clear my throat, and get death threats... I simply lack the mental ability to judge the impact of my words, upon others - unless they tell me clearly. (But at age 12, I could tell you how to spell deoxyribonucleic acid, and explain what it was. Today, I can explain a Higgs Boson particle, without googling it.)
So, I try for 4 years to get my wife on here. Finally got her on, her own acct... IMMEDIATELY people (men, mostly) started pinging her, asking questions, offering dick-pics, etc. She lasted about 2 days, hasn't been back. ...That I know of, anyway.
Summary: I understand what "men" are blamed for. I understand. And... Like many others here, have wrestled with exactly what my "RavishU personality should look like". And I understand that those who arrived here "with a mad on", sometimes will try to blame US. (In my best Forrest Gump voice, "That's all I have to say about that...")
I'm doing it on my profile page...but if someone were to start a thread in Detention Hall for it, I'd chime in.
But I totally understand the dick pic thing...that irritates the hell out of me too, but I don't consider it dangerous, or at least not as much as the demands for hook ups, pictures, location, personal information. I look at the dick pic thing as more of misplaced pride. You have a penis, great, bully for you, way to fucking go. I'm not dating you, so it's not my penis to play with, and, seriously, if you think showing it to me is going to change things you're fucking delusional mate, really they all look relatively the same none of them are really attractive.
The offers are just irritating though. It's a no, I really don't want to see it....
But the unsolicited dick pic, that is pictures of your dick that are forced on me well, my new response to that looks very much like this:
LOL!!!!!
I'm thinking that maybe it's the best response to give, even if they are hung like a horse. Unsolicited dick pics deserve nothing less.