Yeah I think it's safe to say you did the right thing by not trusting that one. First he nags you for pics to prove you're female, then he's calling you a paranoid bitch?! Idiot.
I half think she made that up as an example though, I mean, I believe most people wouldn't go that far.
At the very least, someone smart enough to form full sentences and carry out a conversation like this to the end is probably also smart enough to know not to carry out this particular conversation to the end.
Half Example and Half Composite. I spend a LOT of time in chat, and it is a lot different than the RU boards.
Here on RU proper (and EVERY girl here can probably attest to it) we get crude, possibly threatening, if not outright disgusting PMs a few times a month. That's just a part of being a woman on a Rape Site. Sometimes you check your mail and a newbie has sent you something insulting and written like the misogynistic fantasy of your average 12 year-old.
Those are easy, you can just ignore them and they will go away.
Chat is different, you are in there to hang with your friends & you get someone calling you a cunt because you don't want a Real Life meet up with a complete stranger. And they don't seem to take rejection too well. So while you try to politely give them the brush-off (or not so politely when they open with "hey bitch") they keep on screaming at you while you're trying to share baking recipes with jack. Unlike the PMs, you can't ignore them.
And if not them, occasionally you get the clever ones that try to trick you into things like locations. Let's play the 20 question game until they can pin down a city. "What's the harm in giving me your phone number? How can I use that to track you down?' These guys, like the ones above, only get more demanding and meaner the more you leave your location to state only.
NO, I want to keep RU on RU ONLY. It's NOT a suitable answer for some guys. Why not give me your kik? Why no your email? Why not your skype? YIM? Hangouts?
"NO" is not a valid answer, at least not on a rape site. For the cool guys, they respect a need for privacy.
There are a lot of people here that understand that a woman needs some anonymity on a site that can not only get HER in as much trouble if work, family, and friends found out as HIM, but also a site with potential predators.
Unfortunately there are also a LOT of guys here that do NOT appreciate a woman's right to say NO anywhere on a rape fantasy site. The word "Fantasy" seems to be lost to them.
And if not the demands of RL Hook-ups and potentially problematic stalker-ish information, if they find out that you are a survivor then they instantly demand details. Never mind that what happened is about as personal as personal can fucking get. YOU, the VICTIM absolutely HAVE to tell them and they don't take rejection well.
Rejection of any kind, no matter how polite or flirty tends to piss them off. And since your in chat, it gets CONSTANT.
And you know, it's a rape site, you expect questions about it. MOST of the time it's "well, if you ever need to talk." And that's cool. You get it a lot when people know and the dudes that throw that out, Fucking Kudos to all of you! THAT is the classy way to ask. And it is usually done by people that have been around here for a while.
It's almost always the newbies that don't ask, they feel they can demand and bully you into telling them about the most horrible thing in your life.
So yeah, it is an example, BUT, it's an example rooted in more than a few experiences here. Some that have gotten so frustrating that I've walked away from the site sick of Dicks.
Which leads me to another rant. NO! I DON'T WANT TO SEE YOUR DICK! If that's your avatar you really need to reassess your personality. Don't be so ashamed of yourself, I am sure you have much more to offer than your tool. Be proud of yourself and remember, it's really the fingers that make the man. HINT, HINT.
