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Offline S
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Is it weird that I like to sub some times and dominate at times?
« on: November 22, 2015, 03:46:36 PM »
hi,
I was wondering if anyone else also have the same attraction to being submissive at times and to be dominant at another times. I find it's huge turn on for both depending on the circumstances.

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Re: Is it weird that I like to sub some times and dominate at times?
« Reply #1 on: November 22, 2015, 05:00:28 PM »
Not weird at all. I've heard of peopl that switch back and forth as their moods take them. So be dominant or submissive whenever you want, it's all good!
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Re: Is it weird that I like to sub some times and dominate at times?
« Reply #2 on: November 23, 2015, 10:18:22 AM »
Actually there is a fairly sizable number of people who play both roles. They're called "switches." So no, there's nothing weird about your going back and forth. You're just responding to the natural dominance and/or submission in the people you encounter.
You will submit. Oh yes, you will submit. And you will LIKE it!

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Re: Is it weird that I like to sub some times and dominate at times?
« Reply #3 on: December 01, 2015, 03:21:20 PM »
hi,
I was wondering if anyone else also have the same attraction to being submissive at times and to be dominant at another times. I find it's huge turn on for both depending on the circumstances.
Hey "S"... that's not weird at all. Being a switch requires the right partner, of course. But you need to be with someone who will help you explore the whole you, anyway. Have fun!
God help me, but sometimes I just need to be used by a bunch of men at once. Most of the time I'm happy with just one good cock, but sometimes... I just need to be overpowered by six or eight guys and used until I pass out.

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Re: Is it weird that I like to sub some times and dominate at times?
« Reply #4 on: December 05, 2015, 02:07:00 PM »
S, I think everyone's pretty much hit the nail on the head. Being with the right partner is dead on! From another perspective I don't switch but we enjoy on occasion playing with a switch. A swith with us gets to play both roles, submissive to me and I allow her to Dom my kajira.

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Re: Is it weird that I like to sub some times and dominate at times?
« Reply #5 on: December 13, 2015, 05:50:00 AM »
Not at all 'S'. Even i myself keep going back and forth between being a dom and sub.
Its double the fun!:D
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Re: Is it weird that I like to sub some times and dominate at times?
« Reply #6 on: December 13, 2015, 05:51:47 AM »
Not at all :) I'm mostly dominant/sadist but I like exploring different things so its fine :)

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Re: Is it weird that I like to sub some times and dominate at times?
« Reply #7 on: December 26, 2015, 05:32:31 AM »
nobody is normal when it come to ones kinks