Author Topic: 5 Rules for Ravishees  (Read 30585 times)

Offline Algore

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Re: 5 Rules for Ravishees
« Reply #45 on: March 05, 2016, 01:11:26 AM »
I wish the were a way to know without risking the relationship if someone was okay with rape-play

I'm okay with it!

Alas, I am middle-aged and boring, and in a different country anyway... Sigh.
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Re: 5 Rules for Ravishees
« Reply #46 on: May 24, 2016, 10:53:54 AM »
I wish the were a way to know without risking the relationship if someone was okay with rape-play

I'm okay with it!

Alas, I am middle-aged and boring, and in a different country anyway... Sigh.

Good to know! lol
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Re: Asking for rape role play is risky.
« Reply #47 on: May 22, 2017, 06:27:11 PM »
lecher,

You make a very plausible argument, however, I would still fear that she would judge me to be a pervert, and an otherwise great relationship would end.  If I felt strongly attracted to this person, I would be willing to sublimate my rape fantasies to have everything else the relationship could offer.  I can be satisfied with tamer sex or just keep my thoughts of rape to myself.  So even with mature people, there is a risk in exposing one's self.  I am not sure it is worth the risk.  (Or, maybe I am just a coward or lacking in some other way.)


So well put! ❤️

Let me give you a female's perspective:  we want to know what you like.  We REALLY want to know what you like.  Unless you are with a prude or someone very shy, any woman you're involved with sexually wouldn't have a problem with you saying something like, "Um...could I tell you a kinky little secret about me?"  And ask for her kinky little secret's too. 

Now, I wouldn't suggest blurting out, "I have fantasies about rape!" because the word is enough to scare many woman.  It's definitely open to interpretation, isn't it?  If you said, "I'd really love to hold you down or tie you up and just have my way with you," you're probably going to be rewarded with moist panties.  Unless she's repulsed by the idea, go on and let her know what else you'd like to do with her.  "I want to rip your clothes off and pound into you while you struggle under me."  Sometimes--it's all in how you phrase it.

Go for it! 

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Re: 5 Rules for Ravishees
« Reply #48 on: March 19, 2019, 01:49:07 AM »
I had a boyfriend some years back who really chimed with my dirty mind. He liked to share his rape fantasies with me by whispering them to me as he masturbated me. I just let him go on and floated down the river of lust in my mind, my eyes closed and my mind open. I imposed no limits on him and he took me to some really dark places but I have never enjoyed orgasms as long or as strong as the ones I enjoyed with his fingers controlling my body and his mind controlling mine.
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Re: Asking for rape role play is risky.
« Reply #49 on: October 20, 2020, 03:50:34 PM »
Interesting story.
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