This is an interesting thread. I think it is difficult for both men and women to fully open up to each other with their desires and fantasies. As a woman, in my experience, I’ve opened up only twice with two different boyfriends and they did with me. One was rather cold on the idea where the other entertained it, but never fully engaged in the fantasy. There was always this uneasiness he had with the idea. And for me, there’s always that possibility that he won’t be into play, or on the other side of the coin, he might take it too far. We girls need to be careful.
So guys, here’s the thing. For many women, myself included, we like to feel comfortable with our man. Comfortable is code word for feeling safe. We will reveal intimate desires to those we ultimately feel safe with. Seems counterintuitive, I know, but it’s just how our minds work. If she has experienced actual sexual violence in her life, then she more than likely will not be receptive. Guys jobs aren’t easy, we can be confusing at times at change our minds at the drop of our panties. However, if you look out for your lady, are honest with her and care for her, she will reward you with the same in return. Then, skies the limit.
