A about year and half ago, when I brought a fugitive into a police station, one of the cops present as we turned him in said the following.
"How'd you do it, little girls, one of you spread your legs as he gasped and ogled the other one hit him over the head with brick or something?"
Another time, while playing with his handcuffs, another PI told me, "it's simple, even you or your girly partner there should be able to understand this, you just smack their wrist with cuff and it does the rest."
It can be subtle, "When you get used to your job, it all be easy then. If it isn't just let me take care of the problem for you." Meaning I'd never be able to do job. I heard one man tell his wife at dinner party, "Who'd of thought cook was such a difficult production." He felt the roast wasn't to his liking. I think he just wanted to put her in her place after several of the women asked her for the recipe, cooking time, and her tricks.