Second idea. . .
I feel like Tink, because this is something that has been used by me
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So I had a guy take me to a professional baseball game. I have to admit I found it relatively dull but enjoyed the people watching and walking around the stadium. He was trying to impress me so in the gift shop he bought me a stuffed animal in the home team uniform, a team logo T-shirt with one of the players uniform numbers and name on the back and one more gift.
The third gift was a miniature baseball bat made of polished wood. I wanted the bat because it looked like a nice self defense weapon. I think it is about sixteen inches long and the thick part is about an inch and a half thick. Of course the handle of the bat is thinner and the very end while like a real baseball bat has the flared end it is not that large a tip. It does make a great self defense weapon because it is very hard and could be used like a baton to hit someone.
But I ummm found another use for my miniature baseball bat. Let's just say besides the first object I ever tried inserting was a hairbrush handle a very typical first "friend" for self pleasure. It wasn't too long after attending the baseball game with my friend that I became curious enough to try to find other things to "practice" with. I will admit out of the two choices I favored the handle end. Remember a wooden bat has NO give. So even though the large end isn't huge in circumference it is solid and has no give.
Now while I will admit to using the handle end
I will say the other end was just too thick for a girl of my size. Maybe once I have children I might make better friends with the larger end.