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« Reply #30 on: September 23, 2016, 04:45:04 PM »

Hometown Hero, you're more like the Hometown Asshole. Shut up and stop talking like some loser from the Dark Ages. You have NO idea what you're talking about.  Once you get the facts and are ready to act like a gentlemen THEN we'll be happy to listen to you.

Wow, aren't you clever.  Although, judging by your gay ass screen name, you probably consider astrology a valid avenue with which to get your information.  I on the other hand, rely on an actual science to get my facts.  Maybe you should avoid calling anything a "fact"you learned from a pseudoscience blog or forum.  Try reading a book or an article sometime from an accredited publication on the topic of human sexuality.  Or if your too lazy to do that, find a female friend to truly be honest about where sex falls on her list of priorities if she need not consider her partner at all.  Then ask any male that same question.
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« Reply #31 on: September 23, 2016, 05:08:40 PM »

Hometown Hero your equating men to horses, horses are interested in only three things, sex, food and sleep - the reason you turn a stallion a gelding is to remove one of the distractions. It makes them easier to train and safer to ride. So in your world all men should be clipped of their nuts because they are less human than women. Yeah, I can live with nut the bastard! Let me start with you.
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« Reply #32 on: September 29, 2016, 05:25:42 AM »

I'm always a bit surprised by how many people I find on this site expressing feminist viewpoints, and I feel like about half of the people saying the most feminist stuff are men according to their little logo thingees. lol, go figure.

But, I suppose I shouldn't be surprised because people here in general seem pretty normal, so it's like a microcosm of society. And I suppose I'm living proof you can be a feminist and like rape porn.

Btw, I think that you with a 16-year old of either sex you can't assume it's abuse or that it's not abuse because we basically don't know anything about the situation. It could well be abuse or it could not. If the teacher in question was very old/unattractive, it seems like it would probably be abuse... but even then it could still be consensual. Or even if it's a really hot female teacher and male student, it could still be abuse. Or maybe the student is being heavily pressured by his male friends to have sex with the female teacher and she takes advantage of that. I could see a situation like that happening.

People just love to speculate about stuff like this happening with no proof. But, then, I'm just as guilty because I like to read about the speculation even if I won't take part.
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« Reply #33 on: October 01, 2016, 03:04:30 PM »

hornytheunicorn I don't consider myself a feminist, just superior. LOL All kidding aside I prefer the company of women in most things but even so I don't think I'm a feminist - live and let live is my motto - unless you cross me then it is live and let die. Being a superior female doesn't make me a feminist just a female that is better than any man, well almost every man but maybe a few are my equal.
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« Reply #34 on: October 05, 2016, 06:03:44 AM »

hornytheunicorn I don't consider myself a feminist, just superior. LOL All kidding aside I prefer the company of women in most things but even so I don't think I'm a feminist - live and let live is my motto - unless you cross me then it is live and let die. Being a superior female doesn't make me a feminist just a female that is better than any man, well almost every man but maybe a few are my equal.

There are a lot of misunderstandings about what "feminist" means, in large part thanks to tumblr. But I don't want to get sucked into a debate about it so I won't say the word any more xD
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« Reply #35 on: October 14, 2016, 08:12:23 AM »

Often people destroy their own arguments by knee jerk insults with no intelligent answer to the claims put forward. Personally (as a male) I think Hometown Hero has a valid point, calling him an ignorant wanker (not a quote) doesn't move anything forward and  furthers the cult of HEWHOSHOUTSLOUDESTWINS, quite popular with the liberal left in my country.
I have three daughters, all grown up now and living with their men. I had the usual fathers nightmares of what they were getting up to and with whom; one of them went through a bi period for some years which gave me a different perspective on life, both she and her siblings were sexually active I think at (for me) a shockingly young age and I think I was wise enough not to intervene except when it was bleeding obvious that there was a potential for tears later. If one of them had been seduced by a couple of male teachers (or female) I would have ensured they could only eat through a straw after being let out of jail if they were really fucking lucky.

Honestly, if I'd had a son, would I feel so protective? No, I really don't think so; perhaps because (speaking as a non-American) my background brought me up to believe in a society where men traditionally looked after their women,  men (and boys) were supposed to be stoic and rocks to their family and women were the weaker sex  (Yes, I can hear the sneers and howls of feminist outrage even now). But that's my background and that was shaped by many generations before me. The world has changed, maybe for the better, maybe not. I certainly know that women are NOT the weaker sex mentally, but when we are shoveling shit my arms can hold a bigger shovel.....

Had my hypothetical son been seduced by a pair of male teachers? Well, to the disgust of at least of one of my daughters, I can't quite get over my lifelong prejudices against male/male relationships - I accept it but it makes me shudder. So I think if I'm honest I might not have been so forgiving. Does that make me a conservative sexist idiot? No, it makes me  human.

The biggest fear I had was one of my daughters lives being ruined by becoming a schoolgirl mum, a schoolboy father does not go through the same problems biologically, he would have a good chance of recovering his life; mothers have a harder time generally, so isn't all that why generally,  our society frowns on schoolgirl seduction more than the reverse? Males are generally more promiscuous than women perhaps because of their lack of responsibility, but we also have a built in instinct to breed and men can breed many more women than women can breed with men, that's a throwback perhaps to when we had to.

The attempt to equalize  our society doesn't take into account what we are, it only takes into account what a vociferous minority want us to be, so yes, what the female teachers was wrong -  especially video taping it. Teachers are entrusted with educating our young, if they abuse that trust they disgrace their profession and should be sacked. Prosecuted, yes, for taping it.

Howls of inappropriate and hypocritical moral outrage there may be, but fuck, I really wish that had happened to me......
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« Reply #36 on: October 15, 2016, 01:01:01 PM »

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Quote from: Hometown Hero on August 19, 2016, 12:03:15 AM
Quote from: Titi on April 12, 2015, 10:27:22 PM
A 16yo boy enjoying sex with his female teacher is as much a possibility as a 16yo girl enjoying sex with her male teacher (or the male-male / female-female varieties).

No it is not. You can try to force gender equality until you're blue in the face, but biology is an irrefutable fact.  Men are biologically motivated by a sex drive that starts at puberty and never really diminishes much at all for the rest of their lives.  If a man is healthy, sex is only trumped by thirst and starvation as biological needs, and the drive to have it is stronger than any by either sex by at least ten fold.  The closest drive a woman experiences with even remotely similar power is the maternal drive during pregnancy and immediately after giving birth, and even it pales in comparison to the man's drive for sex.

The fact of the matter is that while many women need sex for different reasons, as far as a biological drive for it, women do not possess one outside of a minor one during ovulation. These are not my opinions but scientifically tested facts that exist to ensure the survival of our species and an assurance that our individual genes continue to live on through generations.

So it is nowhere near as likely that a 16 year old girl would be actively seeking out sex with a male teacher for the sake of sexual enjoyment, as it is for a 16 year old boy seeking out sex with a female teacher for that specific purpose.  It is because of this, that a double standard exists in this case and it very well should.

The manipulation involved in a male teacher with a female student is very different and far more likely to cause emotional damage than in a case like this one.

While I agree that there are such things as biological realities, I think you overestimate the need for sex in men in general. I am not going to pretend that men can't be pigs, that men don't have dirty thoughts, or that men don't go to insane lengths to get pussy. However, for you to assume that pussy trumps everything but thirst for all men is just silly. I find that men have this viewpoint when they are extreme pigs, and they can't imagine that any other male on the planet could possibly have more self control than them.

There is also a predisposition here that women aren't or cant be as sexually motivated as men and that is just -- pure -- BULLSHIT!
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