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« Reply #15 on: April 24, 2014, 08:26:45 PM »

To me a 'real woman' on this site refers to a woman, and not a man pretending to be a woman, of which I am convinced there are many.  Roll Eyes

You are probably not wrong.
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« Reply #16 on: April 29, 2014, 10:34:18 AM »

Why are pics even important?  Do women need to prove themselves?  Screw that!  
  I don't have to prove myself to anyone and I refuse to do so just so someone will "accept" that I am real.

Fair 'nuff.
But then don't expect to be taken seriously.
Brings to mind my elementary school years. A kid on the playground, Tommy Burbank, claimed to be the best marble player in the world. But wouldn't play "for keeps". And when he lost (which he regularly did) while playing "for fun", he would chalk that up to not bringing his "A-Game" since, after all, we weren't playing for keeps.  But if we were, he assured us, he'd win every game.

No need to wonder what became of Tommy Burbank.  
I have no doubt he grew into a super hot female.
On the internet.
Who doesn't send out pix.

But you didn't fool me then, Tommy Burbank.  
And you're not fooling me now.

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I don't think anyone is really in disagreement. I don't really expect a woman who does not feel a connection to me, a friendship with me to send me her picture.  Why should she?  Because she's an exhibitionist?
I don't think the idea of sending a picture to a "friend", someone you feel comfortable, have developed trust with is the issue.  If someone likes me, is my friend and wants to send me a picture, or I want to send them mine, that's our business.

The issue is when someone EXCPECTS  picture, not knowing who you are, not having a bond, a connection with you, just some person who wants to get off, or whatever.  That's a turn off.  It's like saying, "hey, I don't particularly give a shit about you but, um...suck my dick....oh..and by the way, swallow my cum!"  It's like, are you kidding me?!!

I'm a guy and I'm careful about where my pictures may wind up online.  So why would a woman feel any different?
Having said that Ive had many women send me their  pictures over the years and not once did I misuse the picture or betray trust.  I've also never asked for a picture unless I was "into" the woman.  I also never minded waiting until the woman was comfortable.  If she never sent me a picture, cool, no biggie, we don't have to be friends;  It wasn't meant to be.  So  WHY THE BIG DEAL?!  Why does coercion have to be involved.  If a woman wants to send you her pic, she will. IF she won't and you're not happy about it, move on!  No big deal.  I think guys who are so insistent on getting pictures from women, especially without some kind of connection, trust, and/or friendship involved, are likely betraying their own insecurity, insensitivity, lack of social skills, lack of relationship skills, neediness, lack of nuance, etc.

The idea of a woman sending me her picture online because I've pestered her is nauseating to me!  Like, why would I want to do that to someone. It's ridiculous!
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« Reply #17 on: April 19, 2018, 06:41:28 PM »

A picture? To prove somebody is "real"?

For cryin' out loud!  This is a board for posting fiction!  Located on the internet!

The last thing on earth I want to encounter here is reality!   Grin
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« Reply #18 on: May 07, 2018, 08:25:42 PM »

To me a 'real woman' on this site refers to a woman, and not a man pretending to be a woman, of which I am convinced there are many.  Roll Eyes

I've come across a lot Tongue I don't mind if thats how they get their kinks active. If they're taking others photos as part of a false profile for many years, thats not cool at all.
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« Reply #19 on: May 20, 2018, 07:11:51 AM »

Hey, maybe Ray was really a woman pretending to be a man?  I certainly don't think he was a man!  emot_rotf.gif
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« Reply #20 on: May 20, 2018, 07:26:14 AM »

Hey, maybe Ray was really a woman pretending to be a man?  I certainly don't think he was a man!  emot_rotf.gif

I'd say he was a pussy, except that would be an insult to pussies!    Wink
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« Reply #21 on: September 19, 2019, 08:35:35 AM »

Someone has illegally obtained sexually explicit photos of me that they have shared on this site. How do I get those to be removed? They were taken during the time I was being trafficked. Yes, I’m a survivor of human trafficking.
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« Reply #22 on: September 20, 2019, 01:06:27 AM »

I don't live in your country so don't know the laws. The first step would be the police. But realistically, once on the net, impossible to get off. You may be able to get them off the primary hosting site but they could be already copied to other computers.

If the pics were posted on this site, report the problem to Lois or a moderator.
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« Reply #23 on: September 20, 2019, 05:53:06 AM »

If the pics were posted on this site, report the problem to Lois or a moderator.
She already did, JD; Eljorn was on top of it early this morning. Hence why three stories are missing.
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« Reply #24 on: September 20, 2019, 02:31:40 PM »

If the pics were posted on this site, report the problem to Lois or a moderator.
She already did, JD; Eljorn was on top of it early this morning. Hence why three stories are missing.

Good!!
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« Reply #25 on: September 20, 2019, 02:50:47 PM »

Amanda ,

I'm so very sorry this happened to you......

That is the only logical thing to say. I have NO other words to console you......


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« Reply #26 on: January 03, 2020, 08:29:42 AM »

I choose to post pictures. And I'm semi public in my job. Meaning I am viewed by a Medical board which would frown if I posted lewd pictures. The site itself has already been accepted. I know this because I asked my advisor. It's dubbed a fantasy site, not a site advertising for real life meetings. My ex and I once had pictures stolen from a site and used on another. They claimed them as their own.. It was nearly impossible to get them removed, and it took months. Finally they simply blocked the profile. And, we stopped posting the images anywhere. I don't include my face in images containing body parts that some might deem lewd, for this very reason.

But Geminiguy is right. Ignore the noise makers. 99% of the time, they fuel dissension because of inadequacies in their own lives. Seeing others hurt or defensive gives them a feeling of empowerment. Knowledge is power. So you only give them power by defending yourself.

But while it used to bother me, finding out "Carol" was really "Bob" or " Arthur" was really "Amy"..I instead choose to think of it this way...if someone needs to complete their fantasies on a fantasy site, by pretending to be something other than what they are, and if by doing this, it helps them function in healthier ways in life, then I'm glad for them. But, I've grown very adept at spotting males pretending to be females. It's much harder spotting females pretending to be males

And a zillion thanks and licks to the owner and moderators here..I love the way they run this site....especially Lois and Eljorn

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« Reply #27 on: January 03, 2020, 04:21:16 PM »

I am so very sorry this happened to you, Sweet dawnamber. While I was Active, I found Myself in the Media eye far more than I ever wanted. As a Law Enforcement Officer it comes with the job. I didn't like it, nor could I even tolerate it....

Now that I've Retired, My L. E. O. past still comes back to visit Me. The vast majority of My students are very media savvy, and more than once I've been greeted by printouts of Me On Duty being left on My desk.......


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« Reply #28 on: August 18, 2020, 01:40:23 PM »

I had someone asking me for pics of the girls I'm writing about.  Fortunately, if there are pics, it is because I was inspired by a porn star, as in the case of "Siri" in "My Loving Brother."  I simply suggested he Google "Siri" and include the word Scoreland in the search.  A very beautiful, youthful face on a very beautiful, voluptuous (adult) body!
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Ssshhhhhh...  Hush....  You're in good hands now, angel.
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