MMMMmmm
Now I would just love that. Any chance your wife might love it too? I wonder how you might ask her and explore it with her.
During sex have you ever held her arms above her head simulating bondage? If she responded favorably to that she might be open to more.
Here's a little tip for all you fellas. One fairly safe way to find out whether your wife actually likes you being forceful is to try this: when you come home and she walks up to greet you, just grab her and push her up against the wall, kissing her hard. Now, if her reaction is "What the fuck?" or "Get off me", or "No, no, no" then that's a red signal. If she can't handle being backed up against the wall then she's not going to be into rough sex, bondage or ravishment. On the other hand, if her reaction is positive then you have probably made a breakthrough. When you start fucking, ask her how she liked being treated like that, ask her how it felt. Explore what else would work for her...
Even if her initial reaction is negative - it maybe that she had a bad day or was just totally shocked and stunned by your initiative - it's possible she might raise the topic sometime later in bed. She might say "By the way, that time you backed me up against the wall was actually pretty hot, I just wasn't in the mood at the time, but I've been thinking about it since".
Just remember "No" means "No", unless you've got a safeword. Whatever you do, don't try to "test" your wife by fucking her while she's asleep - unless you've
already found out that she likes it.
It should go without saying that what I have suggested is only likely to have any chance of success if you and your wife have fairly regular sex. Also, if you've already tried being a little forceful in bed, like DrewFarnmoore, and she didn't like it, then your chances are slim. Some girls don't like the rough stuff, some girls don't like to give up control...