I had my first orgasm when I was 11 or 12. And it's gonna sounds weird. I didn't reach it through my hands, or pillow, or rubbing against anything that you may think of, and certainly not caused by someone else. So how did I did it? Water tap. No not putting into it which sounds awfully painful. What I did was I fill the bath tub until half full, enough to immerse my lower body when I sit or kneel. Then I placed my wiener at that time directly under the tap while immerse in water, and let the tap run. Instant, home made masturbator. You can even adjust the intensity by changing the water flow and the depth of your dick under the water. It also comes with a handle (the tap), so I can imagine forcing my dick into some of my classmates mouth (I guess I already am a rape fantasy lover at that point) while the water do the work. So you can guess how much I love to bath after that. The few downsides to this would be: You will take a long time in bath until your mother suspects what were you doing inside, you will bath in water filled with your sperm (don't laugh!!), and you might get someone in your family pregnant (luckily that didn't happen, but I always imagine my hot sister would). Too bad we moved few years after that and my bathroom no longer have a bathtub.
On the other hand, I had my first orgasm with a women, more specifically my first girlfriend, when I was 15 years old. I guess I was lucky to land her. She was my schoolmate, and i am her first. Being an eager and sexually curious young man, I asked to touch her boob in my house the next day we got together, and in shock she said yes. She thought that was it. The following day I asked her can I take off her clothes and see what's underneath her panties, and in shock she said yes. 1 week later, while we are both naked in my room, I lost my virginity and so does she, oral and vaginal both at the same day. That was also the day for my first, and second orgasm with a woman. So many things could have gone wrong, and I could had scared her off at any point of time, but she didn't left and we have a long lasting relationship.
As a side note, she had her first ever orgasm when she was 16 years old, 6 months after we got together while I pound her hard from behind as I push her face down over a desk. Didn't really know what's was it at that time, but she was screaming and saying she felt really good and kept feeling that I am hitting "a point" while I thrust into her at a certain angle. Hearing that of course I would continue to fuck her at that angle. The next thing I knew is that she screams loudly begging me to stop, her vaginal wall clamping down uncontrollably around my cock, her hips trembling and juices flowing down her thigh. A caring boyfriend probably would have stop and ask her if she is ok, but I was imagining I am raping her so I just continue to fuck her. Her next orgasm came within minutes, and the next, and the next, until I am finally done. She had a really bad cramp after that. Since then, she had been having multiple orgasm every time, I get to rape roleplay with her due to her new found love in rough sex and our relationship is as strong as ever, no matter how bad of a boyfriend I were.
So here are some of my thoughts for female orgasm:
1) The first orgasm, especially from vaginal penetration, is the hardest to get.
2) Gentle sex can make her feel loved, but rough sex can take her to heavens.
3)Doggy style, not only gives you (guys) dominance and control, but it's also a great way to locate her G spot.
4) This is a classic example of when she says "no", it most definitely means "yes"
5) When you (women) felt like peeing during orgasm, just let it out because you are about to squirt and it's not urine (most of the time)
