If want absolute assurance, go out into the "real" world. Granted with modern science and medicine, you can't be too sure if the woman at the bar isn't packing heat lol.
Yeah I think it's safe to say you did the right thing by not trusting that one. First he nags you for pics to prove you're female, then he's calling you a paranoid bitch?! Idiot.I half think she made that up as an example though, I mean, I believe most people wouldn't go that far.
Yeah I think it's safe to say you did the right thing by not trusting that one. First he nags you for pics to prove you're female, then he's calling you a paranoid bitch?! Idiot.I half think she made that up as an example though, I mean, I believe most people wouldn't go that far.
At the very least, someone smart enough to form full sentences and carry out a conversation like this to the end is probably also smart enough to know not to carry out this particular conversation to the end.
Re: proof
I've ran into lots of transgirls. The reason I'm paranoid is because it's happened many times before.
I'm also parinoid when people tell me they're "18" because I've been lies to many times before.
Some of them are also 15-17 year old girls. I know this for sure.I'm also parinoid when people tell me they're "18" because I've been lies to many times before.
You can be almost certain that any "Hi, I'm new here and happen to be an incredibly hot 18 year old!!!" poster on here or a remotely comparable board is either a much older woman or - more likely - a man.
Since you're strawmanning me I'll just embrace it and say "in character."Re: proof
I've ran into lots of transgirls. The reason I'm paranoid is because it's happened many times before.
I'm also parinoid when people tell me they're "18" because I've been lies to many times before.
OK, that makes sense, and I have noted that YOU don't have your pic posted. I will note that in the male double standard that allows you to make demands you wouldn't appreciate and get offended when we don't respond to "Hey, bitch!" Your paranoia and gender, combined with the theme of the site clearly set you above the same suspicions and give you the right to be demanding, confrontational, and demeaning to every women you meet online. Furthermore, that paranoia supersedes our need for safety and anonymity that you feel the right to enjoy.
You have convinced me, I will be giving you a pic, my IP address, all my social media pages, my home address, daily schedule, and the keys to where I live. That way you can do anything illegal you want to me as well as satisfy your paranoia.
And, while I am at it, my grandmother's contact information as well as my place of employment so that you may directly inform them of my presence on RU thus bypassing their need to search out the information that will destroy my life as I know it.
The difference is that, since you have a penis, the burden of proof is on the woman and your satisfaction supersedes my safety.
Some of them are also 15-17 year old girls. I know this for sure.I'm also parinoid when people tell me they're "18" because I've been lies to many times before.
You can be almost certain that any "Hi, I'm new here and happen to be an incredibly hot 18 year old!!!" poster on here or a remotely comparable board is either a much older woman or - more likely - a man.Since you're strawmanning me I'll just embrace it and say "in character."Re: proof
I've ran into lots of transgirls. The reason I'm paranoid is because it's happened many times before.
I'm also parinoid when people tell me they're "18" because I've been lies to many times before.
OK, that makes sense, and I have noted that YOU don't have your pic posted. I will note that in the male double standard that allows you to make demands you wouldn't appreciate and get offended when we don't respond to "Hey, bitch!" Your paranoia and gender, combined with the theme of the site clearly set you above the same suspicions and give you the right to be demanding, confrontational, and demeaning to every women you meet online. Furthermore, that paranoia supersedes our need for safety and anonymity that you feel the right to enjoy.
You have convinced me, I will be giving you a pic, my IP address, all my social media pages, my home address, daily schedule, and the keys to where I live. That way you can do anything illegal you want to me as well as satisfy your paranoia.
And, while I am at it, my grandmother's contact information as well as my place of employment so that you may directly inform them of my presence on RU thus bypassing their need to search out the information that will destroy my life as I know it.
The difference is that, since you have a penis, the burden of proof is on the woman and your satisfaction supersedes my safety.
That's right bitch, you're nothing but a fucktoy. Of course my satisfaction is more important than your safety.
Not exactly what a new person wants to see. Just saying. Sort of Scary.If it makes you feel better, we know of zero cases where a guy from this site has raped a girl from this site.
Not exactly what a new person wants to see. Just saying. Sort of Scary.Don't worry, we're not all like that, at least most of the people I see posting seem to have common sense, and at least as far as an internet forum goes you can always just block and report people who are like this ;)
In my experience if your chat/fantasy/RP/whatever actually makes your partner hot then they will reveal themselves to you voluntarily.Yes this is my experience too.
LINK! :D
LINK! :D
http://ravishu.com/forums/index.php?topic=34960.0
See we some of us can be nice! please remember we don't mind if you reciprocate just love every time some one does!
Start a topic called "Chest Huggers!" :emot_rotf.gif: not a guy on site would refuse to look at them!
(The above is a comical comment and not a serious suggestion! Asking for certain things borders on Harassment and I try never to cross that line!)
Start a topic called "Chest Huggers!" :emot_rotf.gif: not a guy on site would refuse to look at them!
(The above is a comical comment and not a serious suggestion! Asking for certain things borders on Harassment and I try never to cross that line!)
Why are you the sweetest!!??
Start a topic called "Chest Huggers!" :emot_rotf.gif: not a guy on site would refuse to look at them!
(The above is a comical comment and not a serious suggestion! Asking for certain things borders on Harassment and I try never to cross that line!)
Why are you the sweetest!!??
A mother, five sisters, girlfriend and her two sisters and mother! it's either sweet of in surgery. Guess you know what i chose!
Yeah... I have encountered the "you're a man if you don't share a pic" attitude. I've also been told "you should consider these women suspect as there's no proof they're women" and it's like... why does it even matter? Of course, I may be stupid: I take people at face value until I learn otherwise. For example, I knew a guy once, and he seemed to be an okay person. Then I witnessed him making a story request, and when it was accepted, he hounded the poor author so much about whether it was done or not that the author left the site rather than deal with him anymore. Didn't impress me much.
I'm terrified that sharing pictures will just get me crap I don't want to deal with, or incite someone to rape me. And I feel like my looks got me raped once already. Sure, I could take a headshot. Will it stop there? No, it'll probably go onto "i want nudes" and more. And I don't think I'm ugly. But what if you do? Why would I want to hear that you think I'm ugly or not worth fucking because I don't meet your standard of attractiveness?
Yeah... I have encountered the "you're a man if you don't share a pic" attitude. I've also been told "you should consider these women suspect as there's no proof they're women" and it's like... why does it even matter? Of course, I may be stupid: I take people at face value until I learn otherwise. For example, I knew a guy once, and he seemed to be an okay person. Then I witnessed him making a story request, and when it was accepted, he hounded the poor author so much about whether it was done or not that the author left the site rather than deal with him anymore. Didn't impress me much.
I'm terrified that sharing pictures will just get me crap I don't want to deal with, or incite someone to rape me. And I feel like my looks got me raped once already. Sure, I could take a headshot. Will it stop there? No, it'll probably go onto "i want nudes" and more. And I don't think I'm ugly. But what if you do? Why would I want to hear that you think I'm ugly or not worth fucking because I don't meet your standard of attractiveness?
...I'm more likely to write that I belong to Nyx or Brittany. :-P
...I'm more likely to write that I belong to Nyx or Brittany. :-P
...I'm more likely to write that I belong to Nyx or Brittany. :-P
...I'm more likely to write that I belong to Nyx or Brittany. :-P
Just make sure you know which color lipstick to use for the writing. Nyx probably doesn't care, but Brittany is apt to get out various pain causing devices if she doesn't approve and scream something like "Pink!!!???? What were you thinking!!!!????"
...I'm more likely to write that I belong to Nyx or Brittany. :-P
Just make sure you know which color lipstick to use for the writing. Nyx probably doesn't care, but Brittany is apt to get out various pain causing devices if she doesn't approve and scream something like "Pink!!!???? What were you thinking!!!!????"
OMG Jed how could you say such a thing! You make me sound like some sadistic bitch and.... well.... OK you got me there. But still it's not very nice to say.
(Moderator hat off) I'm a high-functioning autistic. Much of humor and sarcasm is either lost on ME, or wounds me more deeply that it was intended to. As such, it's my job in life to piss people off. I can clear my throat, and get death threats... I simply lack the mental ability to judge the impact of my words, upon others - unless they tell me clearly. (But at age 12, I could tell you how to spell deoxyribonucleic acid, and explain what it was. Today, I can explain a Higgs Boson particle, without googling it.)
So, I try for 4 years to get my wife on here. Finally got her on, her own acct... IMMEDIATELY people (men, mostly) started pinging her, asking questions, offering dick-pics, etc. She lasted about 2 days, hasn't been back. ...That I know of, anyway.
Summary: I understand what "men" are blamed for. I understand. And... Like many others here, have wrestled with exactly what my "RavishU personality should look like". And I understand that those who arrived here "with a mad on", sometimes will try to blame US. (In my best Forrest Gump voice, "That's all I have to say about that...")